Life can get busy when you are a family, and it’s easy to neglect your husband. But they do such a good job as a father and a hubby that they deserve a treat now and then! Here are some ways you can treat your husband to show him how much you love him.
Go out just the two of you
The demands of children can take it’s toll on your hubby, so it’s a very good idea to give your other half (and yourself) a break from them occasionally. Therefore, if you want to treat your husband, you should consider going on a date just the two of you. Arrange a babysitter to look after the kids and you two can go out for a meal. Try and avoid the subject of children while you are out on your own. It’s a great time to reminisce about the times before you had kids. You could always go away for a weekend if either of your parents could look after the kids. It’s a great way of treating your hubby and putting a spark back in your relationship.
Cook him a special meal
Another way you can treat your husband is to cook him a special meal. He likely doesn’t often get a choice of what you guys have for dinner as you’re cooking for the whole family. Therefore, you could cook him a meal for just the two of you. Choose his favourite food to cook and it will remind him that you care about him too!
Arrange a day out for him and his friends
Having friends is so important as you shouldn’t just spend all your time as a family. Therefore, you should arrange a day out for him and his friends. Why not book them a day of paintballing as it will be a right laugh for them all. Or you could even pay for a day driving a tank. He can do this on his own, or you can book for them to all go on the tank together. He will appreciate the fact you are letting him spend time with his mates.
Remind him you love him
Another way you can treat your husband is to remind him how special he is. As this article says, just by telling him how much you appreciate how he is with you and the kids will put a smile on his face. Men are more insecure than we think so we need to ensure we remind him that we still love him regularly.
Make an effort to do what he likes
A top way you can treat him is to make an effort to do what he likes for a change. You might not fancy watching that football game, but a relationship is all about give and take so pretend that you are enjoying it for a change. Let him give you his opinion on what you should do with the kids. He might have a good idea that you might enjoy when you get there.
Hopefully by treating him, he will soon return the favour and spoil you for a change!